Tuesday, March 29, 2011
A cool thing happened in a book exchange....
You know when things happen in a way that you hadn't planned, and you just decide to roll with it and then something cool happens?
On a Saturday morning a few months ago, I found myself standing in my local book exchange, exchanging some books I didn't want any more. I had spoken to the owner of the shop earlier in the morning who recommended I bring the books in that day as it was their busiest and they usually sold quite a few of the books I was wanting to be rid of. So, there I stood.... in my best cleaning clothes, wet hair, no make-up and green Havaianas (still some cool there, I suppose).
I was greeted by a lady who worked in the exchange who was kinda vaguely familiar. We quickly established we had known each other through Weight Watchers. She laughed saying how funny it is that so many people fall of the Weight Watchers wagon, it was then that I told her I had only VERY recently had a baby and she promptly stopped laughing (grmph). We chatted some more about what things we had been up to, travel we had done, we talked about our kids and a few other things, then I got down to the business of looking for some fabulous books I would not have time to read.
I wandered into the section housing classics, travel tales and health books (scarily near the 'sealed' section mind you). A lady I hadn't noticed, recommended a book on travelling with children, she had obviously overheard my conversation with my Weight Watcher buddy. We laughed and shared a few pleasantries. Before I knew it, we were talking about travel and Paris and life and I was struck by what an interesting lady I had just bumped into.
Let's call her, 'Julie'.... Julie recommended a book called, 'The Piano Shop on the Left Bank' by T.E Carhart. She said she reads it every year. It turns out Julie reads A LOT of books and especially books set in and about Paris. She recommended a few other books about Paris, of course, and told me that one day she would love to go there. Me being me, gushed and said, "Oh, you HAVE to go, it is the most amazing place blah blah blah blah de blah...." To which she explained that one day she would like to, but life hadn't worked out the way she had thought and she now found herself a widow and wondering what the future held.
From there we chatted about life and travel and, of course, books. Then Julie explained how much she loves photographic books on Paris, especially a photographer called, Carla Coulson. Then, she stopped and looked at me. She said she had a pile of books about Paris, including, 'Paris Tango' a book by aforementioned Coulson, that she would love to give me. I, of course, said, 'Oh, you really don't have to do that!' But, she insisted. I was really going to dig my heals in, but I thought, 'You know what, how often do you meet a lovely lady in a bookstore who would like to give away some of her books? Just go with it and see what happens.' So I did. I told her where I lived and she said she would drop the books around later.
When she arrived, it was like inviting an old friend in for a visit. Not only did she bring, 'Paris Tango' she also brought a collection of travel tales set in Paris, more photographic books and some 'Good Reading' magazines. It was such an extravagant gesture, I was blown away. I had to ask her in and introduce her to my family, this kind of meeting does not happen every day afterall. Mr Cool and the kids were having lunch outside and Julie engaged in conversation so easily and was lovely to the girls. She told us more of her life story and was just so easy to talk to.
When she left (Cool Baby was hungry and we were due to go and look at a piano), Mr Cool and I both agreed we had just met a really amazing lady. I wonder why I ended up in that book exchange on that rainy Saturday afternoon? I wonder why things happened the way that they do? I wonder if it was just a chance meeting, or if more is going to happen....?
I have since emailed her to see how she was going. She is travelling at the moment, but was very keen to accept my invitation to come for dinner with the promise of Tarte Tartin, when she returns. You can never have too many well read people in your life I say!
Friday, March 25, 2011
Why oh Why am I doing this?
I literally typed the following into 'Google': 'Why do people blog'? As you would expect, a H.U.G.E list of articles came up. I have since come across articles giving some fabulous advice, funny things to do, quirky things to do, inspirational things to do and absolutely outrageous things to do, it was quite educational.
For those of you who know me and/or have followed my diatribes on Facebook over the past few weeks, you will know that I have been trying to rejuvinate my blog. What a comical disaster of errors this has been. I have searched high and low for a new funky background, I have 'Skitched' and spliced, Picasa'd and Googled, I have deleted and added, changed fonts, swished colours, chosen and un-chosen templates, and even updated my blog roll. I now have a new look and a new focus and I have been all gung-ho to .....
Oh pfft... What the heck am I doing here? Why on earth would anyone care about what I have to say? Who is reading this anyway?
I know that this sounds a bit weird and a bit self-loathing, but I have had to basically decide whether this blog thing is for me. I mean I could leave my little ripple in the blogosphere and take up cross stitching cat decals on socks and be done with it. Then a Crafty friend reminded me of why I started this blog. I love to write. No, no, I know YOU love to write too.... But I L.O.V.E. to write.
At night when I wake up, I am in the middle of thinking through story plots, or I am thinking how I can improve a recipe format, or I am remembering something that made me really mad and a letter I could therefore justifiably write (I have a very interesting 'Draft' section in my email account), I am coming up with anonymous letters to people in my street to get their cats desexed, their lawns mown or letting them know that if I stand on the very tippy corner of my bath and lean 32 degrees, I can see into their shower. I love to write. About anything.
So... writing is my first passion when it comes to my blog. But my other passions fit into my blog too - which is handy. I am passionate about 'cool' - ridiculous, right? Not cool for the sake of being cool, but cool as in maintaining a good attitude, keeping good peeps around me, experiencing new things and constantly learning learning learning. I am anti-settling. I am not ready to settle into my hair-cut, shoe style, jeans cut or my 'look'. I am not ready to say I am too old for things (I will not be listening to Beiber and wearing jeggings by the way, don't worry). I am passionate about continuing to discover myself and life even though I have kids and a mortgage (or two).
Therefore, (I wanted to start this paragraph with, 'So', but the previous one was....) within the html of this blog you will find things on fashion, shopping, my somewhat quirky homelife (just wait until you meet 'Fern'), my feeble attempts at crafty things and sewing, and I am going to add cool things about my kids. I was not going to blog about my kids because EVERYONE blogs about their kids, but, you know what? My kids are really cool, and we do really cool things together. Therefore, they get space on my blog.
But you will hopefully find my first love, writing. I give myself little topics to research and write about and things to think about all the time, which send imaginative sparks shooting through my brain. Topics coming up in my Drafts are the history of Birkenstocks, lists of what you need to get your cool back if you have lost it, rules for shopping, the difference between 'Style' and 'Cool' and the list goes on and on and on and on....
Cool....
For those of you who know me and/or have followed my diatribes on Facebook over the past few weeks, you will know that I have been trying to rejuvinate my blog. What a comical disaster of errors this has been. I have searched high and low for a new funky background, I have 'Skitched' and spliced, Picasa'd and Googled, I have deleted and added, changed fonts, swished colours, chosen and un-chosen templates, and even updated my blog roll. I now have a new look and a new focus and I have been all gung-ho to .....
Oh pfft... What the heck am I doing here? Why on earth would anyone care about what I have to say? Who is reading this anyway?
I know that this sounds a bit weird and a bit self-loathing, but I have had to basically decide whether this blog thing is for me. I mean I could leave my little ripple in the blogosphere and take up cross stitching cat decals on socks and be done with it. Then a Crafty friend reminded me of why I started this blog. I love to write. No, no, I know YOU love to write too.... But I L.O.V.E. to write.
At night when I wake up, I am in the middle of thinking through story plots, or I am thinking how I can improve a recipe format, or I am remembering something that made me really mad and a letter I could therefore justifiably write (I have a very interesting 'Draft' section in my email account), I am coming up with anonymous letters to people in my street to get their cats desexed, their lawns mown or letting them know that if I stand on the very tippy corner of my bath and lean 32 degrees, I can see into their shower. I love to write. About anything.
So... writing is my first passion when it comes to my blog. But my other passions fit into my blog too - which is handy. I am passionate about 'cool' - ridiculous, right? Not cool for the sake of being cool, but cool as in maintaining a good attitude, keeping good peeps around me, experiencing new things and constantly learning learning learning. I am anti-settling. I am not ready to settle into my hair-cut, shoe style, jeans cut or my 'look'. I am not ready to say I am too old for things (I will not be listening to Beiber and wearing jeggings by the way, don't worry). I am passionate about continuing to discover myself and life even though I have kids and a mortgage (or two).
Therefore, (I wanted to start this paragraph with, 'So', but the previous one was....) within the html of this blog you will find things on fashion, shopping, my somewhat quirky homelife (just wait until you meet 'Fern'), my feeble attempts at crafty things and sewing, and I am going to add cool things about my kids. I was not going to blog about my kids because EVERYONE blogs about their kids, but, you know what? My kids are really cool, and we do really cool things together. Therefore, they get space on my blog.
But you will hopefully find my first love, writing. I give myself little topics to research and write about and things to think about all the time, which send imaginative sparks shooting through my brain. Topics coming up in my Drafts are the history of Birkenstocks, lists of what you need to get your cool back if you have lost it, rules for shopping, the difference between 'Style' and 'Cool' and the list goes on and on and on and on....
Cool....
